So the Cats out of the bag!

Some know, some don't...

It started about 3 weeks ago and is simply amazing...

For all my intentions I was sure I wasn't going to be in a new relationship for awhile...

What did I mean by awhile I don't know...but I certainly didn't mean for it to happen this quick...

Its been a long hard road over the last couple of years filled with a lot of ups and downs...

So by qualifications I had set the bar high for anyone I was going to date...

They had to be honest...and I just don't mean honest on the surface...I mean honest about everything in their life... (From doing self analysis, best I can tell you, is I made the biggest mistake in my past relationships by settling and not demanding that the people in my past relationships be 100% honest with me. It starts with little things and just kind of continues from there into a negative environment.) So this time I made sure that I laid down the ground rules...No matter how hard it is. I am an adult. I can handle the truth. No matter how hard it is I can deal with the truth as long as your honest.

So with that being said...

This just hit me and her from out of the blue...Wasn't expected...Wasn't planned...

Somewhere down that road it just hits us and it happened...

So what can I say...I've know here for more than 3 years and we've had a good friendship that has developed into something more...Maybe that's why this time its been so easy, so simple, and so honest....(It doesn't hurt that she's a New Yorker and doesn't pull punches...)

Its funny, we both have been looking for red flags and can't find any!!! Its really scary, we just seem to click. What's even better is that all the kids get along and we have no kids issues...I can remember in my last relationship the kid issues where the hardest. I had one simple rule...The rules are applied evenly across the board, but with my ex every kid had rules applied differently...Talk about not knowing if I was coming or going....Its nice to find someone that has the same philosophies and the same goals in mind when it comes to the kids...

So here I am traveling down the road of life again with someone other than myself...

And its amazing...no stress and we're just out to have a good time!